Improvements to LoadSupport

[lbwexler]

Still very much a WIP based on convos with Greg and Lee

Thinking about whether as part of this we want to allow passing loadSpec explicitly to ExceptionHandlerOptions.

Might make it easier for implementations to just pass the loadSpec and know that Hoist will make the right decision about showing the alert (e.g. not for obsolete, auto-refresh)

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