Update forum link to discuss (#577)

* Update forum link to discuss

* Remove gethelp page, remove duplicate text in contribute and update links

* Remove old ref to gethelp

* Remove some passive aggressive wording and add SO to community

* Fix SO link

* Missed mailing list and change for dev forum

* More list changes

config.yaml

@@ -98,8 +98,6 @@ languages:
             links:
               - text: FAQ
                 link: /faq
-              - text: Get Help
-                link: /gethelp
               - text: Terms of Use
                 link: /terms
               - text: Privacy

content/en/community.md

@@ -16,32 +16,35 @@ connect with others within the SciPy community.
 ## Participate online
 
 The following are ways to engage directly with the SciPy project and community.
-_Please note that we encourage users and community members to support each
-other for usage questions - see [Get Help](/gethelp)._
+
+Please note that we encourage users and community members to support each
+other for usage questions. Search for an answer first, because someone may
+already have found a solution to your problem.
+
+Lastly, maintainers are mostly monitoring the forum and GitHub.
 
 ### [SciPy community meetings](https://scientific-python.org/calendars/)
 
 SciPy community meetings are ideal to anyone wanting to contribute to SciPy
 or just know how current development is going. You can follow
 [our community calendar](https://scientific-python.org/calendars/) from your
-preferred calendar manager, or look out for the announcements on our mailing
-list.
+preferred calendar manager, or look out for the announcements on our
+development forum.
 
 ### [SciPy new contributor meetings](https://scientific-python.org/calendars/)
 
 Once a month we have special meetings for folks who want to start contributing
 or have just started. All are welcome! Check our community calendar for details,
-or look out for the announcements on our mailing list.
+or look out for the announcements on our development forum.
 
-### [SciPy mailing list](https://mail.python.org/mailman3/lists/scipy-dev.python.org/)
+### [SciPy development forum](https://discuss.scientific-python.org/c/contributor/scipy)
 
-This list is the main forum for longer-form discussions, like adding new
+This space is the main forum for longer-form discussions, like adding new
 features to SciPy, making changes to the SciPy Roadmap, and all kinds of
 project-wide decision making. Announcements about SciPy, such as for releases,
-developer meetings, sprints or conference talks are also made on this list.
+developer meetings, sprints or conference talks are also made on this forum.
 
-On this list please use bottom posting, reply to the list (rather than to
-another sender), and don't reply to digests. A searchable archive of this list
+A searchable archive of the old mailing list
 is available [here](https://mail.python.org/archives/list/[email protected]/).
 
 ### [SciPy Slack space](https://join.slack.com/t/scipy-community/shared_invite/zt-1a76bomjr-fuS1ZTnmP7b32kIhLb6QMg)
@@ -50,6 +53,15 @@ The SciPy team also has a Slack space that you can join. This is not a user
 support forum, but you can ask questions about contributing and getting involved
 in the community. To join, please [follow this invite link](https://join.slack.com/t/scipy-community/shared_invite/zt-1a76bomjr-fuS1ZTnmP7b32kIhLb6QMg).
 
+### [Scientific Python Discord](https://discord.com/invite/vur45CbwMz)
+
+You can also join the `#scipy` channel on the Scientific Python discord.
+
+### [StackOverflow](https://stackoverflow.com/questions/tagged/scipy)
+
+You can ask questions with the `scipy` tag on
+StackOverflow.
+
 ---
 
 ### [GitHub issue tracker](https://github.com/scipy/scipy/issues)
@@ -75,7 +87,7 @@ scientific computing, we recommend exploring the
 SciPy also organizes in-person sprints for its team and interested contributors
 occasionally. These are typically planned several months in advance and will
 be announced on the
-[mailing list](https://mail.python.org/mailman3/lists/scipy-dev.python.org/).
+[forum](https://discuss.scientific-python.org/c/contributor/scipy).
 
 ## Conferences
 

content/en/contribute.md

@@ -7,22 +7,8 @@ The SciPy project welcomes your expertise and enthusiasm!
 Your choices aren't limited to programming, as you can
 see below there are many areas where we need **your** help.
 
-If you're unsure where to start or how your skills fit in, _reach out!_ You
-can ask on the [mailing
-list](https://mail.python.org/mailman3/lists/scipy-dev.python.org/) or
-[GitHub](https://github.com/scipy/scipy) (open an
-[issue](https://github.com/scipy/scipy/issues) or comment on a relevant
-issue).
-
-Those are our preferred channels (open source is open by nature).
-
-We also have a biweekly _community call_ and a monthly _new contributors meeting_,
-details of which are announced on the
-[mailing list](https://mail.python.org/mailman3/lists/scipy-dev.python.org/) and
-listed in our [community calendar](https://scientific-python.org/calendars/).
-You are very welcome to join.
-If you are new to contributing to open source, we also highly recommend reading
-[this guide](https://opensource.guide/how-to-contribute/).
+If you're unsure where to start or how your skills fit in, _reach out!_
+See the [community](/community) page.
 
 Our community aspires to treat everyone equally and to value all contributions.
 We have a

content/en/faq.md

@@ -164,9 +164,4 @@ officially supported by the development team.
 
 # Where to get help
 
-You can ask questions with the [SciPy tag on
-StackOverflow](https://stackoverflow.com/questions/tagged/scipy), or on
-the scipy-user [mailing lists](/community).
-Search for an answer first, because someone may already
-have found a solution to your problem, and using that will save everyone
-time.
+See the [community](/community) page.

netlify.toml

@@ -30,7 +30,7 @@
 
 [[redirects]]
   from = "/scipylib/mailing-lists.html"
-  to = "/mailing-lists/"
+  to = "/community/"
 
 [[redirects]]
   from = "/scipylib/bug-report.html"
@@ -44,6 +44,10 @@
   from = "/scipylib/donations.html"
   to = "/donations/"
 
+[[redirects]]
+  from = "/gethelp"
+  to = "/community/"
+
 [[redirects]]
   from = "/scipylib/faq.html"
   to = "/faq/"