Remove some passive aggressive wording and add SO to community

content/en/community.md

@@ -16,8 +16,12 @@ connect with others within the SciPy community.
 ## Participate online
 
 The following are ways to engage directly with the SciPy project and community.
-_Please note that we encourage users and community members to support each
-other for usage questions - see [community](/community)._
+
+Please note that we encourage users and community members to support each
+other for usage questions. Search for an answer first, because someone may
+already have found a solution to your problem.
+
+Lastly, maintainers are mostly monitoring the forum and GitHub.
 
 ### [SciPy community meetings](https://scientific-python.org/calendars/)
 
@@ -53,6 +57,11 @@ in the community. To join, please [follow this invite link](https://join.slack.c
 
 You can also join the `#scipy` channel on the Scientific Python discord.
 
+### (StackOverflow)[https://stackoverflow.com/questions/tagged/scipy]
+
+You can ask questions with the `scipy` tag on
+StackOverflow.
+
 ---
 
 ### [GitHub issue tracker](https://github.com/scipy/scipy/issues)

content/en/faq.md

@@ -164,9 +164,4 @@ officially supported by the development team.
 
 # Where to get help
 
-You can ask questions with the [SciPy tag on
-StackOverflow](https://stackoverflow.com/questions/tagged/scipy), or on
-the scipy-user [forum](https://discuss.scientific-python.org/c/user/scipy/30).
-Search for an answer first, because someone may already
-have found a solution to your problem, and using that will save everyone
-time.
+See the [community](/community) page.