MONGOID-5658 Fix callbacks for embedded #3142

Job	Run time
ruby-3.2 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	15m 37s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	15m 44s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	26m 20s
ruby-3.1 drv:master db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	18m 54s
ruby-3.0 drv:stable db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	23m 9s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails:7.0 fle:helper server	21m 36s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.1 fle:helper server	18m 26s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:7.0 fle:helper server	22m 39s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.1 fle:helper server	13m 51s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.0 fle:helper server	22m 17s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:6.0 rails:5.2 fle:helper server	7m 22s
jruby-9.3 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.0 fle:helper server	30m 45s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:5.0 rails: fle: replica_set	15m 33s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:4.4 rails: fle: replica_set	16m 30s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:4.0 rails: fle: replica_set	19m 45s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:3.6 rails: fle: replica_set	15m 6s
	5h 3m 34s

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