Difficult to use with python 3.13

[dbaxa]

There are no wheels for python 3.13 for pyarrow versions <= 17.0.0. While there are similar missing wheels with other dependencies for python 3.13, but pyarrow 16.1.0 seems like one of the more troublesome dependencies to build from source. It is failing with

Building wheels for collected packages: pyarrow
  Building wheel for pyarrow (pyproject.toml) ... error
  error: subprocess-exited-with-error

  × Building wheel for pyarrow (pyproject.toml) did not run successfully.
  │ exit code: 1
  ╰─> [345 lines of output]
      <string>:34: DeprecationWarning: pkg_resources is deprecated as an API. See https://setuptools.pypa.io/en/latest/pkg_resources.html
      /tmp/pip-build-env-6hk5xqe1/overlay/lib/python3.13/site-packages/setuptools/_distutils/dist.py:261: UserWarning: Unknown distribution option: 'tests_require'
        warnings.warn(msg)
      /tmp/pip-build-env-6hk5xqe1/overlay/lib/python3.13/site-packages/setuptools/_distutils/dist.py:261: UserWarning: Unknown distribution option: 'test_suite'
        warnings.warn(msg)
      WARNING setuptools_scm.pyproject_reading toml section missing 'pyproject.toml does not contain a tool.setuptools_scm section'
      Traceback (most recent call last):
        File "/tmp/pip-build-env-6hk5xqe1/overlay/lib/python3.13/site-packages/setuptools_scm/_integration/pyproject_reading.py", line 36, in read_pyproject
          section = defn.get("tool", {})[tool_name]
                    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^^^^^^^^^^^
      KeyError: 'setuptools_scm'
      running bdist_wheel

even when setuptools-scm is installed.

Please update the various dependencies to better support python 3.13.