upgrade Akka jars to ease transition to Pekko

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See #5441 (comment)

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4 deprecations causing build failures.

Error:  /home/runner/work/openwhisk/openwhisk/common/scala/src/main/scala/org/apache/openwhisk/core/containerpool/logging/DockerToActivationFileLogStore.scala:177: method create in trait GraphApply is deprecated (since 3.6.26): Use createGraph instead
Error:  /home/runner/work/openwhisk/openwhisk/common/scala/src/main/scala/org/apache/openwhisk/core/containerpool/logging/SplunkLogStore.scala:183: method dropNew in object OverflowStrategy is deprecated (since 2.6.11): Use Source.queue instead
Error:  /home/runner/work/openwhisk/openwhisk/common/scala/src/main/scala/org/apache/openwhisk/core/database/Batcher.scala:67: method dropNew in object OverflowStrategy is deprecated (since 2.6.11): Use Source.queue instead
Error:  /home/runner/work/openwhisk/openwhisk/common/scala/src/main/scala/org/apache/openwhisk/core/database/StoreUtils.scala:87: method create in trait GraphApply is deprecated (since 4.6.36): Use createGraph instead
four errors found